The Farmer’s Son

I’d like to share with you a story that helped me gain a new understanding of what it means to know fortune or misfortune.

There have been many adaptations of this story, so perhaps you’ve heard it before!

The tale is known as the Farmer’s Son. Enjoy!

One day in late summer, an old farmer was working in his field with his old, sick horse. The farmer felt compassion for the horse and desired to lift its burden. He left his horse to go loose to the mountains and live out the rest of its life.

Soon after, neighbors from the nearby village visited, offering their condolences and said, “What a shame. Now your only horse is gone. How unfortunate you are! You must be very sad. How will you live, work the land, and prosper?”

The farmer replied: “Who knows? We shall see.”

Two days later the old horse came back, now rejuvenated after meandering in the mountainsides while eating the wild grasses. He came back with twelve new younger and healthy horses which followed the old horse into the corral.

Word got out in the village of the old farmer’s good fortune and it wasn’t long before people stopped by to congratulate the farmer on his good luck.  “How fortunate you are!” they exclaimed. “You must be very happy!”

Again, the farmer softly said, “Who knows? We shall see.”

At daybreak on the next morning, the farmer’s only son set off to attempt to train the new wild horses, but he was thrown to the ground and broke his leg. One by one villagers arrived during the day to bemoan the farmer’s latest misfortune. “Oh, what a tragedy!  Your son won’t be able to help you farm with a broken leg. You’ll have to do all the work yourself, How will you survive? You must be very sad,” they said.

Calmly going about his usual business the farmer answered, “Who knows? We shall see.”

Several days later, a war broke out. The Emperor’s men arrived in the village demanding that young men come with them to be conscripted into the Emperor’s army.  As it happened, the farmer’s son was deemed unfit because of his broken leg.  “What very good fortune you have!!” the villagers exclaimed as their own young sons were marched away. “You must be very happy.”

“Who knows? We shall see,” replied the old farmer as he headed off to work his field alone.

As time went on the broken leg healed but the son was left with a slight limp. Again the neighbors came to pay their condolences. “Oh what bad luck. Too bad for you!”

But the old farmer simply replied: “Who knows? We shall see.”

As it turned out, the other young village boys had died in the war and the old farmer and his son were the only able bodied men capable of working the village lands. The old farmer became wealthy and was very generous to the villagers. They said: “Oh how fortunate we are, you must be very happy”, to which the old farmer replied, “Who knows? We shall see!” 

(This adaptation and analysis was found here!)

When you consider the farmer and his response to life as the circumstances kept changing, you begin to realize that there really are no such definitive states of “good” or “bad”. There are definitely things that you want to have happen to you, and things that you don’t want to have happen… but this is all a matter of perspective. Ultimately, you have no control over what lessons life offers you. The only thing you can control is yourself. There is only ever life, as it is happening, and your response to the ever-changing situation.

It is by holding attachment to particular outcomes that you fall trap to the mindset of fortune vs. misfortune. When you focus on the whole of your life, the grand scheme or the big picture, you begin to realize how sometimes, things going wrong – though at the time, feels awful – in the long run, often makes room for bigger, better opportunities.

It really is a matter of perspective!

Hopefully, with a little help from the Farmer, his horses, and his son, you will begin to take a familiar approach to the situations of your life as they change. Be humble, be accepting, and be open to what comes next!

For who really knows? We shall see!

Melanie x

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